On a hot afternoon visiting in Coleman, Texas, the family is comfortably playing dominoes on a porch, until the father-in-law suggests that they take a [50-mile (80-km)] trip to Abilene for dinner. The wife says, "Sounds like a great idea." The husband, despite having reservations because the drive is long and hot, thinks that his … Continue reading On avoiding the Abilene paradox
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Have I been using weasel words?
"Some people say...""I have heard that...""It's well known...""In most respects...""It's somewhat true...""I've seen research..." At one time or another, I have said all of the above—and they're all examples of "weasel words." "Weasel words" are words and phrases that "are aimed at creating an impression that something specific and meaningful has been said, when in … Continue reading Have I been using weasel words?
7 pieces of writing advice from Roman & Raphaelson
One of my favorite books about writing—and I mean the real nitty-gritty of writing—is Kenneth Roman and Joel Raphaelson's Writing That Works: How to Communicate Effectively in Business. The thesis put forward by Roman & Raphaelson ("R&R" from here on out) is that most of the writing we encounter in the office workplace is just … Continue reading 7 pieces of writing advice from Roman & Raphaelson