On the danger of Five Books

Five Books is a recommendation I give with some hesitation. Basically, it’s a book recommendation website. The twist is that the recommendations come from recognized experts and relate to a specific topic. And there’s also the format: the experts’ five recommended reads appear in the course of a thoughtful interview—itself often conducted by another expert. … Continue reading On the danger of Five Books

On conversation as improvisation

I’ve lost the original thought, to my shame, but it’s the most helpful conversation concept I’ve encountered in a long time: Conversation as improvisation. It’s not the most intuitive framework for conversation. For me, my fallback structure for conversation is a different concept: Conversation as competition. That concept doesn’t imply that I try to “win” … Continue reading On conversation as improvisation

On drinking from the new job firehose

My brain is tired. I forget that the simple act of consuming information is still exhausting. That’s not to suggest that related mental activity—generating information, organizing information, analyzing information—isn’t likewise exhausting, too. It’s only to posit something special about the exhaustion of consumption. I’m reminded of those long, quiet days of focused work where I … Continue reading On drinking from the new job firehose

On when we stopped thinking of musical interpretation as art

I watched a couple clips of American Idol the other night. Miraculously, I've made it through 33 years without so much as seeing a snippet of the iconic show. I knew of it, of course—it was hard to avoid American Idol, especially in its heyday, when America still legitimately seemed to watch the same TV … Continue reading On when we stopped thinking of musical interpretation as art

On an introduction to alcohol

My introduction to alcohol was one of prohibition: Thou shalt not drink. My parents, more than a little Protestant in them, decried the temptation of alcohol in stern terms even as they—wait for it!—imbibed themselves. The nerve! But this is less about their imposed teetotaling attitude—which was really not the worst mindset to have in … Continue reading On an introduction to alcohol