On the argument that performers should “shut up and play”

For several years, I was a regular reader of a country music news and reviews website that I won’t name here. I won’t name it, because it’s infamous for its combative creator and its abusive, rage-filled comments section. Honestly—-and you’ll just have to trust me on this!—I didn’t read for the venomous takedowns or snarling … Continue reading On the argument that performers should “shut up and play”

On turning out all the lights before bed

One of my favorite icebreakers is a simple one: What’s your favorite household chore? The answers always feel revealing in a way that’s hard to figure. Does knowing that my colleague loves steam-cleaning actually tell me anything about them? Maybe not—but it’s still a delightful little nugget to have in the back of my mind. … Continue reading On turning out all the lights before bed