On being a sucker for resolutions

I’m a sucker for the New Year.

When the calendar flips, I forget about all my failed resolutions and once-new, briefly-held habits.

What if I…tried again?

January 1 was like any other wintry day in the Denver area, but that intangible spirit of opportunity felt omnipresent.

I went for a stroll to a bookstore in Denver’s Cap Hill neighborhood and eavesdropped on a pair of friends browsing the stacks.

“We committed to reading more this year!” said the one, kneeling to pick through books on a bottom shelf.

“But we also just went to yoga,” said the other.

The kneeling friend nodded before standing up. “Fair enough,” she said and they walked out, sans any books.

I followed their lead a few minutes later. And leaving a used bookstore without a book in hand is unusual. But I was inspired!

No more “read 50 books this year” goals, I thought. Quality over quantity.

On the second half of my stroll, my mind flitted from one potential goal to another.

What if I made a photo book for the year?

Was trying to walk or run 2 miles a day as foolish as it sounded?

When would I start that woodworking project?

Was following the Premier League a waste of my time?

What if I wrote a blog post every day?

…And what if I did all of it?

Better yet, what if I did it all, and promised myself not to feel badly when I fail?

That might the most reasonable resolution of all.

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